Respect and Face of Elder’s Sex Requirement 

    When talking about the word "sex", what does it come to your mind? Young? Difficult to speak? Can't we talk about it?

   Few people will associate it with elderly people, and most people believe that elderly people do not have physiological needs and naturally do not have sexual activity. In fact, this idea is incorrect.

   The old Wang (pseudonym) is a 64 years old retired worker. His wife passed away many years ago, and after retirement, he felt that life was very lonely. He went to the local blind date corner to find a partner for himself, and during the search process, he constantly had sexual relations with unfamiliar women. According to his estimate, he had ever dealt with around 50 sexual mates.

   A while ago, Old Wang suddenly had frequent diarrhea symptoms, which could not be alleviated by taking antidiarrheal drugs. After going to the hospital for examination, he was found to be infected with AIDS virus.

   Actually, in recent years, the news that the elderly are infected with AIDS is not uncommon, and the number of infected people is increasing year by year. The reason for this phenomenon is that the sexual needs of the elderly have not been fully valued.

  How to face the "physiological needs" of the elderly?

   Many people have a prejudice against the sexual needs of the elderly, believing that they are disrespectful and disrespectful in their old age. But in fact, aging does not equate to sexual aging. Many elderly men even have sexual needs in their 80s, which is a normal physiological phenomenon.

   Properly engaging in married life can bring many benefits to the elderly, and engaging in sexual activity can have a certain alleviating effect on their memory and brain aging.

   Because sexual activity can help the brain of elderly people become more active, thereby delaying brain aging; At the same time, sexual activity can consume excess calories in the body, accelerate blood circulation throughout the body, and accelerate the metabolism of the elderly.

  Many elderly people also have varying degrees of sleep disorders, which can be improved through appropriate sexual activity. Having sex can help the brain release more oxytocin, lower stress hormone cortisol levels, and increase the duration of deep sleep.

  Gynecologist Lauren from Northwestern University in the United States ▪ Dr. Staicher once pointed out that appropriate sexual intercourse among elderly women can help reduce the risk of vaginitis and also reduce the risk of vaginal dryness, making women younger; Proper sexual intercourse among men can reduce the risk of prostatitis.

Behind the pursuit of sexual life by elderly people is endless loneliness

   There have some journalists once conducted interviews specifically targeting elderly people infected with HIV and found a common characteristic among them: loneliness.

   Most elderly families have good living conditions, but their children are busy with work and can't see each other twice a month. They can't find anyone to talk to, and their spiritual needs are neglected.

   Endless loneliness can easily lead to wild thoughts and ultimately cause mental collapse, which is truly terrifying. So many elderly people choose to save themselves, find their significant other, or seek relief through sexual means.

   But many young people do not support these, so the elderly can only do it secretly. In addition, their lack of knowledge in this area makes it easy to be infected, casting a shadow over their future lives.

   Here is a reminder that young people with elderly people at home must pay more attention to the spiritual needs of the elderly, and go back to see or make phone calls when they have free time.

   When elderly people have a need to find a partner, they should be given sufficient support and understanding, but they should be reminded to pay attention to relevant knowledge and not put themselves at risk due to inadequate measures. What’s more, you can recommend the elderly to follow Libusex's updates on sex toys products to meet their sexual needs.

   At present, clinically, AIDS is still incurable. The best way to deal with the disease is to prevent infection, and sex is the main way to spread AIDS. The sexual needs of the elderly need to be taken seriously by everyone and require joint efforts from the whole society.